New age, new phases

Now that Heidi is 2, (post to come about that) she is starting some new phases. Starting about a week or two ago she started reaching things on high surfaces that she hadn't been able to before. She was watching a video and I walked into the room to see how she was doing and she had the remote and had turned the TV off. I didn't think she could reach it! Then the other day she grabbed something off the kitchen counter! We will have to be careful what we put on the counter.

Lately she has also started to figure out how to undress herself... just partially. So the past few mornings I have gone in to get her and she is only half clothed.

Save a Place for Me

I heard this song on the radio the day I was driving to Texas for my Granddad's funeral. It seems appropriate with the passing of both of my grandpas. It made me cry and I wanted to share it with you. Click on the song title to listen to it.

Save a Place for Me

Don't be mad
If I cry
It just hurts so bad, sometimes
'Cause everyday it's sinking in
And I have to say goodbye all over again

You know I bet it feels good to have the weight of this world off your shoulders now
I'm dreaming of the day when I'm finally there with you

(Chorus)
Save a place for me
Save a place for me
I'll be there soon
I'll be there soon
Save a place for me
Save some grace for me
I'll be there soon
I'll be there soon

I have asked the questions why
But I guess the answers for another time
So instead I pray, with every tear
And be thankful for the time I had you here

(Chorus)

I wanna live my life Just like you did
Make the most of my time Just like you did
And I want to make my home up in the sky Just like you did
Oh, but until I get there...
Until I get there...

(Chorus)

Driving to Texas

Please pray for safe travels. Heidi and I are driving to Yukon and then riding with my Dad to Texas today. I love you all. Thank you for your sweet messages and especially your prayers at this time.

While I'm gone....

There are new photos posted on Flickr and new videos posted on Youtube. Look at the links on the left side of the page. Scroll down to find them.

Granddad went home

Terrell Hershel Cox

April 28, 1925- January 4, 2010

Granddad passed away sometime after 2:00 this morning. Clint, Heidi and I were just there visiting from Thursday until yesterday. When we left yesterday, I knew it would be the last time to see him before he went home. I have to say that I felt somewhat relieved to hear that he is no longer suffering. At the same time it is so hard to even grasp that he is gone and that Papa is also gone... all within such a short period of time. I just have to put my trust in God that He is still here, giving us comfort and strength.

I will always remember that everytime I saw Granddad he usually said something like, "Darlin', did you know that I love you?" I can hear his West Texas accent and feel his strong hug and kiss on the face. He did love his family. He loved Grandma so much and loved his girls and their kids just as much.

Heidi and I will drive back to Texas with my Dad tomorrow. Please continue to remember us in your prayers.

Granddad and his sisters

12-27-09

Opening poll again

The last poll for the blog name was pretty inconclusive so I opened it again for a longer period of time. So everyone please vote again. I guess if it's inconclusive again I will just figure out where to go from there.

Prayers for Granddad

The same weekend of the my Papa's funeral, my Granddad was sick at home. My mom finally convinced him to go to the doctor with her. They did some blood tests to see if he had an infection and gave him some medicine and sent him home. While we were at the funeral the doctor's office called to tell him he was very anemic and he needed to go to the emergency room immediately for a blood transfusion. As soon as we got back from the funeral he called my mom to tell her and my parents took him to the ER.

They ended up sending him to Lubbock so they could do a bone marrow biopsy. The results were that he has acute leukemia. Because he is 84 years old chemotherapy is not an option. He has pneumonia so he has been in the hospital in Lubbock until they can take care of the pneumonia. Then he can go back to Snyder, Texas.

There is a room next door to my Grandma in the assisted living where she lives. He will be in hospice there. I'm so glad they will be together.

Please pray for him and for my Grandma. I just can't believe this is all happening. Clint and I are trying to figure out a time when we can go see him. Thank you for your thoughts and prayers.

Obed Wooldridge

My Papa passed away on December 11, 2009. He was 85 years old. He was a good man who loved his family and worked hard to take care of them. He was a Christian man and lived his life as one. His sense of humor was so great and I will never forget his laugh and joking spirit. He loved my Mama so much and since her passing 4 years ago, he missed her so much. He has now been reunited with her. We are so glad that he is at peace and we know we will see him again someday.

New name

Ok, so far I have a couple of favorite ideas for the new blog name.

Everhart to Heart
forEVER in our HeARTS (or maybe just spelling it HARTS... I can't decide what I like better) There is also a story and some sentimentality that would go with this one.

So please take the poll on the left side of the screen. Thanks!

Sophia and Elke's visit

Right after our family vacation we had visitors. Our friends from Chemnitz, Sophia and Elke, came!

They planned a 3 week trip around southwest US. Their trip began in OKC with us for a few days!

The morning after they got here our container arrived from Germany! Since the girls were jet lagged, they slept in but several friends of ours came to help us unload the container into my parents' garage.


The container arrives!


The guys waiting to unload


More helpers

Later that day we took the girls to the Oklahoma City National Memorial. We went into the museum first which was very moving and then we looked around outside at the memorial. I didn't get a lot of pictures on my camera but the girls got a lot so maybe I will post a few of their pics soon.

That night we went to dinner at Ed and Courtney's place. It was good to spend time with them.


The next day we took them to Bricktown in downtown OKC.


Bricktown Ballpark


Riding on a water taxi on the Bricktown Canal.


Land Run Statues along the Bricktown Canal.


Girl picture!


No first-time trip to the US is complete without a trip to Walmart.


At the Oklahoma State Fair


We watched the Great Plains Indian dance.





Fun picture we had made at the Fair!


Elke and Sophia with Heidi the night before they left OK.

Family Vacation

The cousins all together in September

In September my entire family got together and had our first family vacation after many years. This was the first time we all went together with all spouses and children. It was a lot of fun! On Sunday morning before we left, we took some pictures of the girls in their matching dresses made by my Mom, Mimi!

We went to Lake Tenkiller near Talequah, Oklahoma. Heidi's favorite thing to do at the lake was play with the rocks!

Daddy and Heidi having fun at the lake

Heidi and Ashlyn playing in the water. Ashlyn couldn't wait to get in so she jumped in with her clothes on.

Riding on Papa's boat

Lydia and Heidi playing in the water

The girls enjoyed playing with play dough

Papa can always make Heidi laugh!

Cousins

Water fun

New name?

I have one more thing I wanted to bring up. I guess I need a new name for the blog since we aren't in Chemnitz anymore. :( does anyone have any ideas or suggestions? I am not really coming up with any great ideas at this point.


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I can finally blog!

So I'm finally able to blog again. We still don't have Internet or phone... All I have to say about that is if AT&T doesn't get their act together, they are going to miss out on our business. But thankfully, I found a way to blog using my iPhone.

Update on Papa: he's still in hospice and I don't think there has been any improvement. Please keep praying for him.

Today we went to my niece, Lydia's, birthday party. She turned 2 on the 4th. Crazy! Next thing I know, Heidi will be 2. I don't know if I'm ready for that! Unfortunately, I don't have the ability to post pics from my camera but I can post pics from my phone so I will leave you with the only 2 I got with my phone today.


Heidi playing outside at the party


Mimi pushing Heidi in a car

Prayers for Papa

Please pray for my Papa, Obed Wooldridge. He is in the hospital and his kidneys are failing. He has stopped eating and drinking. He also has pneumonia. They are trying to get his kidneys to function again, but there is only so much they can do. He may not have long to live. If this is God's will, then pray for my Dad, my Aunt Becky and Uncle Ronnie and the rest of our family. My parents drove to Snyder, Texas to be there with him today. I will keep everyone updated when I find anything out. Thank you in advance for your prayers.

House Hunting

I couldn't go to bed tonight without posting about our first official day of house hunting. Our Realtor was actually unable to show us houses today, but he had a coworker take us to several houses that we were wanting to look at in a nice neighborhood we have our eye on.

Clint and I both had one particular house high on our list of favorites just by seeing the information and photos on the internet. We were both very excited to see it in person. We come in the house and it is obvious the house has been lived in, but that they recently moved out. There were some things I found strange... it didn't look like they really took the time to clean it very much after moving out. There was one hole in the wall behind a door where the doorknob had banged into the wall. These things, however, seemed fairly minor. They could be fixed, or cleaned so we continued to look with somewhat interest.

We looked through the entire house and were getting a pretty good feeling about it in general, when we decided to check out the garage. I reached for the door and the moment I opened the door, this stench hit me in the face. I said, "What is that smell?!" We slowly entered the room, staying close to the door and quickly scanned the room. Clint was the first to mention the refrigerator. As I focused my gaze on the refrigerator, I looked in horror at the pool of blood leaking out of it. I just stood, frozen, trying to reason with myself that it wasn't what it looked like. In what seemed like slow motion, Clint reached for the door to open it, as I screamed inside my head... "Don't open it, I don't want to see what's inside!" But the words didn't come out. As the door to the freezer opened, the stench grew more and more disgusting. I was feeling sick at my stomach and I felt like I was about to be traumatized by what I saw. I was so scared to see what it was. The entire freezer, from top to bottom, was full of raw, rotting meat. Disgusting!!! Yet, I have never been more relieved to see rotting meat in my life. We quickly closed the door, while commenting on how disgusting it was, and left the garage as quickly as possible.

As we got back into fresh air, the Realtor asked... "If you could block that out, what did you think about the rest of the house?" I think I literally laughed and shook my head saying, "I can't block that out!" The rest of the day I haven't been able to block that out and I think I may have nightmares about it.

What kind of person would leave raw, rotting meat in the house they are trying to sell??? Some people are so crazy...

On a better note, we did see some really nice houses with no rotting meat in them. We have 2 houses that we are still interested in that we saw today. We are keeping them on our list and perhaps we will go back to see them next week.

Return to the USA

Clint, Heidi and I arrived in Oklahoma 9 days ago. I guess the past week has gone pretty smoothly. We are doing well and trying our best to adjust. We have had lots of good times spent with my family. It has been wonderful seeing Heidi play with her cousins and with Mimi and Papa. We bought a truck on Monday. That was pretty exciting and we are enjoying it.

Clint tried to unpack and put away his things a couple of days ago, but I guess I just kept putting it off until today. I finally unpacked the rest of the suitcases and put everything away and tried to make our rooms in my parents house as comfortable as possible. In some ways, I guess that was very satisfying to finally be out of our suitcases and living like normal people. In another way, it was a realization for me that we are officially living outside of Germany.

I sat down and looked at some photos, read some cards from dear friends and a few tears came to my eyes tonight. I wanted to wallow in self pity but I decided that would do me no good. I tried to just smile and look at the wonderful memories and then finished up organizing our room.

I have also been putting off writing on my blog. Every time I thought about writing something, no words came to mind. I almost feel guilty to talk about the good and fun times we are having with our family because I miss my friends in Germany so much and I don't want them to think that I don't miss them. But I know that I promised to write and to keep this updated for my friends as well. So I am really going to try to do the best I can.

I hope this blog post is not as depressing as I think it is. Actually, I will end the post with some photos to lift the spirit of the post. :)

I hope you are all doing well. Love you!


Heidi and Casen are quickly becoming friends. Casen is the son of my good friends Josh and Amanda. he is 10 days younger than Heidi.


I got to see some great friends the day after I arrived. Pictured here is Laura (my voice teacher in college), Heidi, me, April (roommate and good friend from college) and Amanda (good friend from college). It was wonderful getting to spend time with these girls! Thank you for making me feel so welcome!


Our truck! It's a 2000 GMC Yukon.


Us in front of our truck.


Heidi playing with her cousins: Claire- 3 years and Lydia- 21 months. They thought the funnest thing about the park was stomping in a puddle and getting dirty. :)


I think Clint had just as much fun (if not more) as the girls did in the pool. In the picture is also my brother, Jonathan.

Pause

Pause is German for stop, rest or break. I guess you could say I have been taking a "pause" from my blog lately. I just have found no time for it and I'm pretty sure that within the next few weeks I will not find time for it either. I think I am going to think through whether I keep the blog going or not. Maybe when we are back in the States I will have more time to do it, but let's face it... you can't always expect to have "more time" just because situations change. So I will think about it and see what I will do with it.

I would like to ask all of my *many* readers out there to be praying for us over the next several weeks. We are preparing to make a huge transition. We are leaving Germany on August 20th and moving back to Oklahoma. I can't express the emotions I have right now... there are so many. I definitely am excited to be with my family again. On the other hand, it breaks my heart to leave Chemnitz and the "family" I have here. Just pray for us... we would appreciate it.

I will leave you with a couple of pictures.


Velony and Heidi at the Pirate LST party


Ruben and Heidi at playgroup


Heidi enjoying her first German made car. :)

Women's Retreat

The first weekend in March I was able to go to a Women's Retreat at Burg Lichtenberg. We stayed in a youth hostel at a castle not too far from Kaiserslautern, Germany. It was a really nice youth hostel. The rooms were really like what I usually think of a youth hostel being- dirty, huge and just not that nice. The room we had was meant for about 6-7 people sleep in but we only had 5 in our room and it had it's own bathroom and shower. It was really nice. They also had a cafeteria with good food. The fellowship of course was really great. I got to meet a lot of new people and got to see friends I have known for awhile.


Lichtenberg Castle where we stayed.


Oberstein Felsenkirche (Rock Church)


Playing Phase 10


Stopping for ice cream


Having fun


The Chemnitz Ladies :) Doreen, me and Karen

Heidelberg and ABSS (Advanced Bible Study Series)

In February Clint, Heidi and I went on a trip to Heidelberg with a friend of ours, Steve Allison, from Abilene. He is a professor at ACU and came to speak at a seminar in Gemünden (near Frankfurt). We picked him up at the Frankfurt airport on a Sunday and drove to Heidelberg and enjoyed the rest of the day there and some of Monday looking around Heidelberg. We had a good time visiting with Steve.



In Heidelberg there is a famous monkey on a bridge there. He is holding a mirror in his left hand. There is a sign next to it that says: "Why are you looking at me? Haven't you seen the monkey in Heidelberg? Look around and you will probably see, more monkeys like me." Perhaps in the mirror??? Ha ha. I don't know really what it's about, but it's funny.



Heidi all bundled up to check out Heidelberg! We woke up Monday morning to snow!



This was the view from our hotel room on Monday morning. We were right by the bridge where the monkey was (at the bottom of that big tower is the monkey).



Checking out Heidelberg with Steve. Heidi was sleeping in her stroller. :)



We took a tour of the Heidelberg Castle. It is partly in ruins but there are still some areas that are intact and you can go inside. It was really interesting.



World's largest wine barrel at the Heidelberg Castle. It holds 55,100 gallons of wine.



We took a family picture outside of the castle.

At ABSS Heidi made LOTS of new friends! We saw old friends and made some new ones as well!



Heidi just loved Bill Wilson from Cologne, Germany and he loved her too!



Philippe, Dolores and Nathan Dauner from Marseille, France were there. Nathan is just a couple of months older than Heidi. They had a good time together. I guess it wiped Nathan out!



Roman from Bratislava, Slovakia, Jackie Halstead from Abilene, Texas and Peter from Kosice, Slovakia.



Heidi and Jesse Brazle from Antwerp, Belgium had a lot of fun playing!



Arlin and Pamela Hendrix from Lyon, France.



Roman from Bratislava, Slovakia- we are all supported by Champions Church of Christ in Houston!